Sunday, August 27, 2006

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Your Passion is Gray

Your sexual attitude is best described as apathetic.
Often joking that you're asexual, you can go months without getting any.
For you, great sex does not make or break a relationship.
If it happens, it's just the icing on the cake.

I knew it! My husband is always wondering why I never want to "do it." Now we know: I'm just apathetic. As well I should be, taking care of preteens and teenagers all day long then coming home to someone who acts like one! What does he expect, really?

10 comments:

Oh, The Joys said...

Oh no! What would Dr. Ruth say? (Remember her?!)

Mama C said...

She would probably say something like "You need to get over it and just do it already!" I'm sure there's some sort of repressed memory or something. All I know, it's very frustrating for the hubby. He wants it every other night, which is flattering. I want it about once every couple of months, at most. We have a fight about it every couple of weeks. It never changes.

Sayre said...

Well, what does he expect? You're working (with kids at that) all day, you have your own kids, you have a house that needs tending and a family that needs feeding and he doesn't have a job and doesn't sound like he helps you out a lot. That isn't exactly a recipe for romance.

Perhaps you could strike a deal that would make life better for both of you. Say, as long as he's not working, he does certain things around the house and if he does that to take some of the burden off you, you'll be there for him, say, a couple of times a week (or once a week).

I've been there. I could go months without even a flutter of desire (which has much more to do with me being tired than it does with him), but if my husband cleans or cooks or takes my son away for a day so I can just relax, I'm much more interested in being with him than if I'm doing it all myself.

two cents, for what it's worth...

Nikki said...

I'm yellow.

It says I'm probably bisexual.

Sayre said...

I'm green - I look more innocent than I am...

Mama C said...

qNikki- I did not need to know that. Maybe I won't look at your ass anymore. But I like it! Does that make me bi too?

Sayre- Thanks for your advice. He does all the outside work, like mowing and raking and edging. He also takes out the garbage every week and gets both kids ready for school every day. He's not a complete deadbeat.

Nikki said...

Mama C - LOL It blew me away when it said I was probably bi.LOL

*shakes butt for you* LOL

Nikki said...

oh and Syare - I'm not buying that for a minute.

Sayre said...

Oh, yes... I LOOK pretty innocent. Big blue eyes will do it every time. You'd never know that I had a clue as to what goes where... Ha! All you'd have to do is look at my husband and the resulting child to realize that I know EVERYTHING I need to know in that department.

Hey, Nikki - was that a shake or a jiggle?

Nikki said...

Sayre, LOL You're asking for punishment.LOL

It was definately a shake...at least at first...that it morphed into jiggling is beside the point.